Second Chances?

For those closest to me, you know how much of a believer I am in second chances, third chances and sometimes, fourth chances.  (well, most cases).  I believe that people can change; turn over a new leaf.  Lord knows we are capable of being every evolving, depending on how badly one wants to change/better themselves.  I, by no means, am perfect.  I have many shortcomings and faults.  Despite my imperfectness, I do take bettering myself seriously (I see a therapist once a week to help with problem solving skills, rational thinking, stress handling tips, etc).

With all being said, I have recently been "friended" on facebook by someone from my past..... a.k.a ex-boyfriend.  Taking into account people's ability to better themselves, I am VERY skeptical of this particular person's ability to suddenly be "enlightened."  His wall posts are ridiculous.  His ego is obviously still in tact and larger than ever.  I'm tempted to illustrate his rap sheet-- its long, curvy, slimy and filled with bullshit.  I, being the bigger person, will never call his bluff however, my ever-evolving self knows now to tread lightly on those who have burned me in the past.  Did I mention he suddenly loves Jesus?  Yeah.  Interesting.





Thank God I found a kick ass partner in my husband.

Instead of claiming it "Wedding Season," I will now be naming summer as "Shower Season."  Baby showers left and right.  I have been blessed with 3 showers-- my mom, aunts and sisters are throwing me a shower back in Michigan this weekend.  On June 30th my mother-in-law is throwing me a shower and on the 21st of July my friend from college is hosting a shower.  Holy crap.  I feel bad-- no one can be that excited about a baby..... can they?  I swear, baby Willis already has WAY MORE clothes than his father and I put together.